I also had this issue once after updates, however now all is well.
The first action to take when this happens is to make sure that all drivers are up to date, and that you have reset your router. Most routers have a reset button which is activated by the use of a paper clip. insert end of paper clip through hole and hold it on untill all lights flash then release it. Power off the router Modem then power on wait till all lights are working then try again.
In the very begining Vista did have some problems with compatibility and wireless, however it has been my experience that there have been no issues since using a compatible wireless card. It appears that Vista is for the next generation Wireless A.G.N. and with this all works very well. admittedly there are some issues, however this is not to do with Vista, it is with the third party component people where their hardware is not compatible, therefore beware choose all components carefully and there should be no issues.